[PD] dynamically set "graph on parent" option?

[altern]

IOhannes m zmoelnig(e)k dio:
> altern wrote:
>> hi
>>
>> is there a way to dynamically set "graph on parent" option in a 
>> subpatch or abstraction? i guess the answer is a big no ...
> 
> its yes (if you don't care for an official API); please search the list 
> archives for how to do it

mmm... are we talking about the same thing? i already searched the list 
before sending the mail, and now i was looking for it for two hours. i 
searched the list over and over again and also the documentation and 
examples in pd extended. I discovered few nice things about the PD 
widgets i did not know before, but not what i am looking for...

enrike