[PD] osc pd-max

[roc]

hey
i've never used OSC until now, when i'm trying to connect a pd patch  
on my powerbook to a max patch in another mac. it works from max to  
max, but i cant figure out the right syntax to make pd talk to max.
on my patch i have:

[connect 192.168.1.13 5500(
|
[sendOSC]
|
[OSC]

and i'm trying it with, say, [send poo $1( connected to sendOSC.
then on the machine running max, i have:

[otudp read 5500 nbufs 10 bufsize 256]
|
[OpenSoundControl]
         |
         [route poo]
         |
         [0)

what am i doing wrong?
this must be extra-easy, but...
danke
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